Parenting as a Christian Single Dad

One of the biggest challenges for single fathers these days (parents in general) is communicating effectively with their child. We all strive for open and honest communication but become frustrated when it appears their attention is somewhere else and they aren’t listening. Yet we seem to find it perfectly acceptable to discuss things with them while we are reading the paper, doing the laundry, picking up the house, working on the computer, watching TV and then wonder where the line of communication broke. Read the Full Article: Successful Father Child Communication

Online journaling is healing for me and it makes me consider the situations I encounter with the end result in mind. For example: I no longer just say, “I am angry.” I try to figure out why, lessons learned, and how this can help others. Publishing this website has done more than help me to grow but it has brought new people into my life. I feel we all have a purpose; a godly mission and there is a reason for everything that happens. Read the Full Article: Online Journaling is Healing

Christian life after divorce is what we make of it. If we hold on to the bitterness and hatred then our spiritual walk won’t be very fulfilling. But if we seek God and learn to reach out to others we are going to live a rewarding life. I know it isn’t always easy… There were plenty of Sunday’s I didn’t make it to church and felt like giving up. But those feeling fade and if you know the truth then you never want to truly let that go. Just do what you can and never give up. Read full article: Christian Life After Divorce

The common cold - There are times you think that your children are always sick or that they seem to be getting sick more than normal but that doesn’t mean things aren’t as they should be. Children typically have anywhere from six to ten colds each year with more severe and long lasting symptoms than adults. Symptoms typically improve for your child within a week. Ear infection - An inner ear infection is most common for children between the ages of 4 months and 5 years old. An ear infection is caused by bacteria or viruses. When these germs make their way to the inner ear it fills with fluid causing pressure which can hurt. They often clear up without antibiotics but it is still a good idea to check with your doctor, especially if they keep coming back. Stomach flu - None of us like to get the stomach flu and it is the second most common childhood illness. It is always important to watch your children when they have the stomach flu for signs of dehydration. Sore throat - Sore th...

Maybe you have been considering making a lifestyle change for you and your family. You have realized that you don’t look and feel as good as you used too or your children seem to have turned into junk food junkies. As parents you can take action but you need to do it as a family and you must be a positive role model for your children. For some families getting healthy is a major lifestyle change. But that should not deter you from proceeding. You have much more control than you may think but it will take some discipline. You can turn off the TV and take the kids to the park or go for a walk. Limit the amount of video games your children play and encourage them to go out and kick the ball around. When it comes to cooking serve more vegetables and get back to the basics. Eat foods in the right proportions and don’t over do it. Read Full Article: Jump Start Your Family on a Healthy Lifestyle

Recent events have put me in a place of confusion. My ex-wife has informed me that she is moving away at the end of the month. Madalyn has 2 days left to spend with her mom until who knows when. She has not attempted to discuss visitation or how she is going to be part of Madalyn's life which really bothers me. Fear is really starting to kick in... How will I cope with my daughter's missing her mom? What should I do? Will I make both a great dad and mom?  When will I have time for adult interaction?  Is it wrong to want to re-marry so Madalyn can have a womanly influence in her life? These questions and many more are running through my head. I am in uncharted territory but then again isn't that is how most of life is.  Prayers are always welcome!

I just say it is that time of the year again when I am anxious for spring time. I want to feel that warm sun on my face and get out and play. Madalyn is going to finish up her first year of Kindergarten and she is doing great. I bet first grade will be a shock for her, having to go all day long. Just think in another 4 years I can probably stop paying for child care.  It will be like getting a nice raise. :-)